TIME TO THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX, REINVENT OURSELVES, REALIGN PRIORITIES, CREATE NEWNESS
STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS
PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER
MY GRANDMOTHER always looked for the proverbial silver lining -- and found it.
In times of distress or crisis, she'd say, "Let's put a positive spin on this, shall we Cookie?"
Cookie's neighborhood walks find beauty. It's there. |
I had no idea there'd be so much citrus in my life.
This latest crisis -- the Covid19 pandemic -- affects all of us, so it's a global problem, not just one with which I alone am dealing.
The absence of individual routines brings a couple together in fun ways, here lifting weights to live Jazzercise. |
Cookie's missing their usual 3 or 4 plays and concerts a week, so she makes her own music for the couple. |
With stores closed comes an opportunity to improvise, create new habits, rituals. |
We miss "being human," sharing a laugh or a gasp at a first-run movie, stopping to chat with a friend at the post office, rising in a standing ovation at the end of a fabulous play. On and on.
We usually have Friday date night at a favorite restaurant. For the first couple of lock down weeks, we could still obtain take-out. Now, even that has been curtailed.
Redecorating the living room included hanging a painting of Nick and Nora, the couple's beloved Yorkies, in a frame Keller crafted while on lockdown. Nick survives Nora. |
Dressing for dinner cheers us up, and brings memories of happy dinners on cruises and in favorite bistros. |
Cookie rejoices in a wine delivery, along with specialty items, veggies, fruit, fish and chicken in the cooler bags. |
Our neighbors keep social distance, but smile and wave as they, too, adjust, try to keep fit.
Before the complete "stay home" edict, Keller helped several neighbors with house repair projects they couldn't accomplish themselves.
WE ORDER in wine and produce, thanks to Keller's infinite patience. Getting a slot to open for delivery has been his greatest challenge, but his persistence pays off. We've used Amazon Fresh and Whole Foods to stock the frig and cupboards, including nice wines and beautiful meats and produce. We have braved outings a couple times simply to get in the car and go somewhere. And we're cooking up a storm. (More about that next week.)
Be safe, use caution, keep fit, stay optimistic. And we'll try to do the same.
: With no way to travel and no plays, concerts or dinners with friends, readers have asked what we do in a typical day. So we'll share our world through things that provide pleasure and activity -- even in the isolation of Covid19. We'll bike the hood, play Scrabble, cook, catch up with old friends and beloved family. Then we'll bring you a pair of exciting food columns, with suggestions on connecting yourselves to the world through favorite meals. We'll take you grocery shopping in foreign ports, then showcase favorite meals and include a simple recipe, with ideas for making the best of this rotten isolated situation -- through food. Remember to explore, learn and live and catch us Fridays for a fresh spin on travel, dining, nature and the arts: whereiscookie.com
Important to find humor and calm in the mayhem of the virus. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteYou guys really do make lemonade from the lousy citrus of Covid19. Bravo, brava.
ReplyDeleteThis cheers me up, even in the darkness. You give hope.
ReplyDeleteHappy to see this and grateful for your sense of fun amidst the darkness and gloom. We must carry in with humor.
ReplyDeleteOh we love this.... thanks for keepingcus smiling.
ReplyDeleteWe, too are sequestered. This helps.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing! You have a knack for living life to the fullest despite adversity. Cheers to you and Keller.
ReplyDeletelove your grandmas positive go foraward attitude----
ReplyDeleteBeen painting exterior of my home - have friend enlarging pantries and closet shelves-sorting and keeping really busy---enjoy your pause and rest time-